Bye, Jeff and Crystal. We said goodbye to Jeff and Crystal during youth meeting Sunday night. After spending more than a year living with a family from our church, they are leaving foster care and returning to their mother in a small town in southeast Missouri. Jeff is 14 and Crystal is 12. We had a nice little going-away party for them. A few of the teens got together Sunday afternoon to make posters, banners and balloons for them. Several of the kids were sad about the party, though. They had established strong friendships, and a true community with Jeff and Crystal. About a dozen of our teens regularly work together in the spring and summer in weekend tent revivals in local trailer parks. That's where they really have forged bonds. Church meetings have been ancillary to that process. The strongest bonds were formed outside of the church activities -- working with the tent ministry, coming together in homes, and so on. I'm thinking more and more about Andrew Jones' Search Party comments about the party outside the institution known as church.